Healing Pelvic Pain & Pelvic Floor Conditions
An Integrative, Trauma-Informed Psychotherapy Approach
Psychotherapy can play a vital role in healing pelvic discomfort by addressing the emotional, relational, and neurobiological dimensions of pain, discomfort and pelvic floor issues . My work supports individuals in gently unwinding cycles of discomfort, guarding, fear, and disconnection—helping restore safety, trust, and ease within the body.
Pelvic discomfort can be a Mind–Body Experience
Muscle guarding or pelvic floor hypertonicity
Heightened pain sensitivity and nervous system reactivity
Fear-based avoidance of touch, movement, or intimacy
Disconnection from bodily sensations
Shame, frustration, helplessness, or self-blame
Psychotherapy helps regulate the nervous system and creates the conditions in which the body can begin to release protective patterns that are no longer necessary.
Conditions This Work May Support
This therapeutic approach may be helpful for individuals experiencing:
Chronic pelvic pain
Vaginismus or pain with penetration
Pelvic floor hypertonicity or chronic tension
Vulvodynia
Pain related to childbirth, gynecological procedures, or medical trauma
Pelvic pain associated with trauma, anxiety, or chronic stress
Sexual pain, avoidance, or fear of intimacy
Pelvic pain with no clear or ongoing medical explanation
My Therapeutic Approach
Trauma-informed psychotherapy
EMDR-informed resourcing and processing
Hypnotherapy for reduction, of pain and discomfort and nervous system regulation
Mindfulness and somatic awareness
Sex therapy and intimacy support
Attachment-based and compassion-focused interventions
Rather than “pushing through” pain, we focus on listening to the body, restoring internal safety, and rebuilding trust in bodily sensations.
Why My Background Matters for Pelvic Pain Healing
Pelvic discomfort often affects intimacy, desire, boundaries, and one’s relationship with the body. It may also be linked to medical trauma, sexual trauma, relational trauma, or long-standing patterns of fear and guarding. My training allows me to approach these experiences with care, clarity, and respect—without minimizing, pathologizing, or rushing the healing process.
Nervous system dysregulation and trauma responses held in the body
Dissociation, shutdown, or overwhelm that may arise during pain-related work
The importance of pacing, consent, and choice
Creating safety and stabilization before addressing deeper emotional or somatic material
Address sexual discomfort and intimacy concerns without shame or pressure
Support healthy boundaries, communication, and body autonomy
Normalize the impact of pelvic discomfort on desire, arousal, and relationships
Help clients reconnect with pleasure, safety, and embodiment at their own pace
How Psychotherapy Supports Pelvic Pain Healing
Reduce fear-pain cycles that reinforce pelvic muscle tension
Regulate the autonomic nervous system
Address trauma, grief, or emotional stress stored in the body
Improve interoceptive awareness and mind–body communication
Support emotional processing beyond what physical treatments alone can reach
Restore agency, safety, and connection to the body
Healing often unfolds gradually, with increased ease, decreased pain intensity or frequency, and improved emotional resilience over time.
Collaboration With Medical & Pelvic Floor Providers
Psychotherapy for pelvic pain is most effective as part of a collaborative care model. I frequently work alongside:
Pelvic floor physical therapists
Gynecologists and urogynecologists
Urologists and other medical providers
Psychotherapy does not replace medical care. Instead, it complements medical and physical treatments by addressing the nervous system and emotional dimensions of pain.
What to Expect in Therapy
Therapy moves at your pace. There is no requirement to discuss sexual experiences, trauma, or bodily sensations before you are ready. Safety, consent, and choice guide every step of the process.
Reduced negative intensity or fewer flare-ups
Improved ability to relax pelvic muscles
Increased comfort with intimacy
Greater trust and connection with their bodies
Improved emotional well-being and self-compassion
Is This Work Right for You?
Feel stuck despite medical or pelvic floor physical therapy
Notice that stress or emotional factors worsen pain
Experience fear, shame, or disconnection related to your body or sexuality
Want a gentle, whole-person approach to healing
Are seeking trauma-informed, consent-based care
Next Steps
Healing pelvic pain and discomfort is not about forcing the body to change—it is about creating the safety that allows the body to soften, respond, and heal.